4D3N · Indonesia
Bandung
Thu 25 to Sun 28 March 2027
from S$1,299all-in, one payment
8 of 8 early-bird seats left
Letting Go Retreats
The Surrender
For what you'd spend on a normal beach weekend, you get the weekend and you get your heart back.
Four days, one attachment, and a room full of people putting theirs down too.
See the datesWhy a retreat
The book becomes something you live.
You read the book. You highlighted half of it. You cried at the right pages. And three weeks later you were exactly where you started, holding exactly what you were holding.
The villain isn't the person or the loss. It's the highlight–and–forget cycle: beautiful spiritual content that moves you deeply and changes nothing, because it hands you a destination with no map and nobody walking beside you the next morning.
A retreat is the map, the walk, and the people.
The dates
Choose your weekend.
4D3N · Indonesia
Ubud (Bali)
Thu 10 to Sun 13 June 2027
from S$1,299all-in, one payment
4D3N · Malaysia
Langkawi
Thu 9 to Sun 12 September 2027
from S$1,299all-in, one payment
4D3N · Thailand
Phuket or Koh Samui
Thu 18 to Sun 21 November 2027
from S$1,299all-in, one payment
What all-in means
One price. Everything but the flight.
- ·3 nights' accommodation, twin sharing
- ·Every meal from Thursday dinner to Sunday lunch
- ·Airport transfers both ways
- ·All sessions, circles and the Sunday letter of release
- ·A 30-day follow-up call after you're home
- ·The only thing you pay for is your flight
Been before?
Come back for the next one.
Every attachment released makes the next one lighter. If you've been before, you know the room, you know the work, and you come back at $999 all-in on any future run.
Your return rate unlocks with your alumni code on any retreat page.
Questions
Why this group size?
Up to 24 people, in circles of eight. Letting go is confessional work, and it only works in circles of eight where everyone speaks and nobody hides. All circles are held by Mizi. If a date is full, join the waiting list; we'd rather open another run than widen the room.
Who is this for?
Anyone carrying one thing they cannot put down: a person, a loss, an outcome, a fear. You'll be asked to name it on the first evening and you'll leave it in a letter on the last morning. If you have read The Art of Letting God and are still carrying it, this is the room.
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